Charles Simmons told NBC News he did not tell Defense Secretary Pete Hegseth to ânot stop until the job is doneâ regarding Iran, describing their Dover Air Force Base interaction as not covering that topic.
Simmons is the father of Master Sgt. Tyler Simmons, 28, one of six crew members killed when a refueling aircraft crashed in Iraq the prior week, according to the article text.
At a press conference, Hegseth said families repeatedly told him to âfinish this,â âdo not waver,â and âdo not stop until the job is done,â framing it as a consistent message from multiple families.
Pentagon spokesperson Sean Parnell said Hegseth respects Gold Star families and that details of individual conversations at Dover âremain private,â declining to substantively confirm or rebut the quoted message.
Simmons said he spoke with Hegseth and President Donald Trump and felt treated warmly, but he also said he has questions about the conflict and cannot draw definitive conclusions without more data.
Simmonsâs reported message to Hegseth was about hoping decisions are necessary given the peril involved, not an exhortation to escalate or persist.
The article links Hegsethâs claim to similar remarks from Trump on March 7 after a dignified transfer, when Trump said âevery single oneâ of the families asked him to âfinish the job.â
NBC also cited a public official present who said they did not hear anyone tell Trump to âfinish the jobâ in Iran, undercutting the universality of Trumpâs claim.
The conflict is described as nearing the end of its third week and as having killed âat least 13â American service members, per the article text.
The piece notes online criticism of Trump for wearing a branded âUSAâ baseball cap at the ceremony, which is presented as a separate controversy from the disputed family quotes.