Charles Simmons told NBC News he did not tell Defense Secretary Pete Hegseth to “not stop until the job is done” regarding Iran, describing their Dover Air Force Base interaction as not covering that topic.
Simmons is the father of Master Sgt. Tyler Simmons, 28, one of six crew members killed when a refueling aircraft crashed in Iraq the prior week, according to the article text.
At a press conference, Hegseth said families repeatedly told him to “finish this,” “do not waver,” and “do not stop until the job is done,” framing it as a consistent message from multiple families.
Pentagon spokesperson Sean Parnell said Hegseth respects Gold Star families and that details of individual conversations at Dover “remain private,” declining to substantively confirm or rebut the quoted message.
Simmons said he spoke with Hegseth and President Donald Trump and felt treated warmly, but he also said he has questions about the conflict and cannot draw definitive conclusions without more data.
Simmons’s reported message to Hegseth was about hoping decisions are necessary given the peril involved, not an exhortation to escalate or persist.
The article links Hegseth’s claim to similar remarks from Trump on March 7 after a dignified transfer, when Trump said “every single one” of the families asked him to “finish the job.”
NBC also cited a public official present who said they did not hear anyone tell Trump to “finish the job” in Iran, undercutting the universality of Trump’s claim.
The conflict is described as nearing the end of its third week and as having killed “at least 13” American service members, per the article text.
The piece notes online criticism of Trump for wearing a branded “USA” baseball cap at the ceremony, which is presented as a separate controversy from the disputed family quotes.